After speaking to a professional about it... nothings clearer.
Basically, the way they do it in leather factories, to keep the finish in-tact and maintain the leather best they put the leather jackets of this caliber in a large drum that basically simulates wearing it. It 'tumbles' the jacket.. his best recommendation was just wearing it, and or hand crumbling it again and again.
And old trick we used to use was wear the jacket and find the places you have the most stiffness (shoulders, elbows, wherever), and put the jacket on a stiff surface simulating the 'stiffest' part by folding the jacket up on itself in that section(s), and put weight on it... let it sit overnight, and then reverse the fold...
IE: If the arms/elbows are stiff, put the jacket on the floor, roll up the arms as best you can, and put a flat weight on it (or anything to keep it rolled up overnight), then the next night reverse the roll...
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