I used golden note for the DJ at my wedding. They were reasonably priced. I went with the polish kid Sebastian he was great. We also skipped out on the whole video thing to save a few bucks. We used a guy in totowa as the photographer he was reasonable as well EAG Photography.
http://www.wedalert.com/vendorsites/showcase/EAGPhoto/. We had the reception at The Newark Club, that was expensive though.