big bash or no

[SilverDragon]

I'll be turning 30 soon, and I have a little one on the way.

I'm paying off a lot of things before lil' G gets here, which means money's a little tight.

Am I crazy to even think about throwing myself a 30th b-day bash (big milestone). I'm trying to be mature about things and am considering reasons not to spend the money for this (over $2000).

Has anyone not had one of those milestone parties(21st or 30th, bachelor party, etc.) and has regreted it?

I'd hate to not do anything for 30, and try to make it up with 31.